Last night was going to be Adam’s final dinner at Spice Foods restaurant before he leaves the country tomorrow night. It’s our favorite place here and we’ve become friends with the owner. It’s just a quick drive down the street but since its always dark when we are ready to head out for dinner, we’ve taken achabas (motorcycle taxis) to get there and back to the hotel. Instead we got there only to find out that there was a private party, just like last Sunday when we tried to come for the buffet. We went to a Chinese Restaurant a couple blocks away that wasn’t nearly as good (and as far as we know didn’t serve beer).
I thought the hardest part about getting on the achabas would be the insane roads and driving practices, but really my biggest fear at the moment is just dealing with the drivers. All the drivers waiting outside of the hotel know that whoever comes out of it can afford more than the 50 or so naira fare that most people pay. And, according to the culture here just about everything must be haggled.
Common sense tells me that before I get on a bike I should be sure that the driver knows where I want to go and how much I’m going to pay him when I get there. This should be easy but it definitely isn’t. For one, I can barely understand their English and they can barely understand mine. The incredibly huge generator building next to us doesn’t make it easier for anyone to hear. Secondly, it’s in the best interest for the drivers to get you on the bike as quick as possible without ever really settling on anything. They know you have money and once you get there, they can charge whatever they want. So it’s always a struggle/argument with a lot of confusion and hussle. I usually end up paying more than I say I will, sometimes because they end up asking for more or because I just want to please them.
Why is that? At the airport when I first arrived, I was so determined to please the workers there that I didn’t even think to try and put my foot down and remind them that I had already been approved to stay until September, and no, I don’t want to have to go to an immigration office to extend my visa. Instead, I nodded and reassured them that everything is fine. I think my fear is somewhat grounded in reality, after all I am in a strange place that I don’t know well and especially when confronted with figures of authority (official or otherwise) I’m sort of at their whim. At the same time, I can’t set myself up to be taken advantage of because I’m more or less certain that I will be.
Anyway, the big move today! I’m excited.